Christy, I love this essay. It resonates so deeply with me. Birthday parties bring up so much for moms (the good and the bad!). The pressure can be a lot, but I’ve learned that all my kids really want is to be surrounded by the people they love and, of course, enjoy some cake! Keeping it simple (and very us!) has worked well.
The “me/not me” problem concept is one I’m going to carry with me as a mom. Such a great reminder to separate ourselves from our kid’s emotions. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful piece!
Thanks so much for this note, Amelia! I agree—kids just really want to be reminded that they are loved. I appreciate that nudge. I’m so glad we can connect in our shared motherhood-shaped corner of Substack! ✨😊
Christy, I love this essay. It resonates so deeply with me. Birthday parties bring up so much for moms (the good and the bad!). The pressure can be a lot, but I’ve learned that all my kids really want is to be surrounded by the people they love and, of course, enjoy some cake! Keeping it simple (and very us!) has worked well.
The “me/not me” problem concept is one I’m going to carry with me as a mom. Such a great reminder to separate ourselves from our kid’s emotions. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful piece!
Thanks so much for this note, Amelia! I agree—kids just really want to be reminded that they are loved. I appreciate that nudge. I’m so glad we can connect in our shared motherhood-shaped corner of Substack! ✨😊
Me too!! Excited to follow along on your journey! ❤️
Thanks for including me!
Thanks for making me laugh amidst the chaos!